Too much!
Listen.
If there is anyone upset that they found out about my move or marriage through here or a mutual friend instead of from me, don’t be. I’m not saying that there is, I don’t know, but I’m sure I’d be a little upset if a person I considered a close friend didn’t keep me in the loop about something like this.
I haven’t told anyone outside of my immediate family (brother, parents), my friends in New York since I obviously wouldn’t be seeing them again any time soon and friends that I have met in person since I’ve gotten back. No one else.
I refuse to let any family know just yet because I don’t want the word to spread like wildfire. The news can drop here at 2pm and travel around the world and come back to my parents within hours or less. And then there will be phone calls with aunties wanting to know more or *gasp* wanting to talk to me. No thank you!! I truly do not have time for that. I barely have time for myself!
I’m trying to keep this as low-key as possible. I want to talk to my friends more in-depth when I see them in person because I hate talking on the phone. That’s why I only mentioned it “publicly” on here and not on facebook, my other tumblr or twitter. The only people I really want to know already read this, but I will talk to them in person when the time comes.
The next few weeks for me are going to be so terribly grueling and packed with work and errands that I’m having a mini-freakout and I’m sitting here writing this instead of getting stuff done. I have to code four sites (and I’m not that as good at coding as I am at designing), finish designing six web pages, pull some banner ads out of my ass and look for apartments for early May move-in, find a good CPA that has experience with freelancers and small businesses to do our business and personal taxes or file an extension, look for rings that aren’t ostentatious like most brides seem to love, and shop for nice clothes for our court marriage and the mosque. That’s just me.
X has so much more to do and just thinking about that makes my head hurt.
This whole entry is me procrastinating on all the stuff I have to do. I wish X knew how to code so he could help me with that but even if he did, it would be more of a burden on him at this time and he doesn’t need that.
UUUUUGHHH maaaaannnn I just want to sleep forever and wake up to find that everything has magically been completed. If only.
Alright. I have to work. I must! After I make myself a cup of tea. Yes. Right to work!
